Working models and relationship quality in dating couples
Nonetheless, we know that many couples do live together before they marry.
Many pastoral ministers identify cohabitation as the most difficult issue they deal with in marriage preparation.
Now, nearly twelve years after the original work of , the cumulative pastoral experience of ministering to cohabiting couples has broadened and deepened.
In order to develop the second section, Committee staff collected marriage preparation policies representing 129 dioceses from around the country.71-77) the question of cohabitation under two headings: (a) input on cohabitation from personal experiences and the behavioral sciences and (b) pastoral approaches to cohabiting couples.In this latter section the handbook drew upon the written policies of a few dioceses to present a range of possible options for working with cohabiting couples who come seeking marriage in the Church.During this time they can be given the spiritual foundation that helps them to make informed, faith-filled and life-giving choices throughout their lives.With this foundation, it can be hoped that couples will choose not to cohabit before marriage.