On paper, Janet and Eric are more Main Street than Wisteria Lane. Janet has a master's degree, and Eric enlisted right after high school.They do all the things most married couples do: go to movies, walk their yellow Lab, work out (which explains the abs; they run every morning at 6 a.m.). Everyone is ‘normal’ People often presume swingers are either ridiculously good looking (think Eyes Wide Shut) or ridiculously suburban (think Abigail’s Party – minus the clothes). Simply curious and open-minded singles and couples exploring their naughty side. There’s a strong code of conduct Courtesy, respect and an understanding of when someone is not interested in your advances are all essential at a swinging party. People are stripped bare, literally and metaphorically.
For them, swinging is something they do to enhance an already strong bond.They talk about what turns them on and what's out-of-bounds before every sex party, and when they go to one, they stay together so everything's in the open."Janet and I are married, we are best friends, and we do everything as a couple, including this," says Eric. "I couldn't control that my sex drive had plummeted, and when you've been with the same person a while, sex can start to feel same-old, same-old." Eric became concerned; his past marriage had ended after he and his wife stopped being intimate and both had affairs.That's when he found adultfriendfinder.com, a pornographic site that allows anyone over 18 to post video.It's filled with homemade movies from real couples, and Eric asked Janet if she'd view it with him.